For Olivia, on her birthday.

My son Andy and my daughter-in-law Olivia, early on in the courtship.

Today is Olivia’s birthday. Compassionate, a gifted artist, an entrepreneur, a loving wife and mother, a faithful daughter to her ailing mom. She encompasses all that is admirable and wonderful about being a woman. Andy and Olivia met in an underground bank parking lot in Minneapolis. Andy had a car detail business in the parking lot, and Olivia was the parking lot attendant. Their relationship grew into something incredibly special. I find it remarkable how people of diverse backgrounds, cultural and family, find in one another that special connection that links them together forever.

A photograph that Oliva took of St Benedict Church, St Benedict using the mirror on the organ to capture the sanctuary. She is an incredibly gifted photographer.
Olivia, my dad, my mom, and Andy in the Spring of 2002. Andy and Olivia were expecting their first baby (Owen). When Andy and Olivia were dating, she lived in Circle Pines, not far from my mom and dad’s townhome. They use to double date with mom and dad.

Here is a poem I gave Olivia on my birthday in 2015.

The Gift Of Olivia

Welcoming, oh, how the love
of two people welcome
into their lives the love of a
child. Daughters and Sons,
some born into this love,
and others adopted. Ah,
but you are more special,
you became my daughter,
the avenue of your entrance
into the heart of my family
through the love of my son,
nuptials blessed, his dream
fulfilled, and I? I am gifted with
another daughter to love.
Extraordinary from the start,
passing into the hearts first
of my parents, double dating
no less, long football Sundays
trapped on the leather couch,
running the familial gauntlet
of Andy’s maternal relatives,
all with such ease and grace.
Long an artist before formally
acknowledged, your gift of
composition, light and color
captures images long lasting.
The gift of your self equally
capturing my heart, a heart
that welcomes you and
cherishes you, my daughter,
as mine own.

(c) 2015, Robert Charles Wagner. All rights reserved.

Aidan and Owen, Olivia and Andy in Chicago for my niece, Joan’s wedding.

In 2016, on my birthday, I gifted my family with a piano song written specifically for them. Here is the song I gave to Olivia.

An Irish Air (For Olivia), Psalm Offering 12, Opus 6 (c) 2016, Robert Charles Wagner. All rights reserved.

Olivia is of Filipino ancestry, why does the song sound Irish? When Ruth and I celebrated our 25th wedding anniversary, we and all our kids traveled to Ireland. Andy and Olivia were engaged, and she is part of our family. Olivia is among some of the most fondest memories of that memorable time in the life of Ruth and I.

Andy, Olivia, and Beth in Waterford, Ireland.

What more can I say to honor her on this special day?

HAPPY BIRTHDAY, DEAR DAUGHTER, OLIVIA!!! HOPE THIS DAY IS VERY SPECIAL FOR YOU!

Among my favorite pictures of Olivia is this one with Olivia and Ollie.

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Deacon Bob

I am a composer, performer, poet, educator, spiritual director, and permanent deacon of the Catholic Church. I just recently retired after 42 years of full-time ministry in the Catholic Church. I continue to serve in the Church part-time. I have been blessed to be united in marriage to my bride, Ruth, since 1974. I am father to four wonderful adult children, and grandfather to five equally wonderful grandchildren. In my lifetime, I have received a B.A. in Music (UST), M.A. in Pastoral Studies (St. Paul Seminary School of Divinity, UST), Certified Spiritual Director. Ordained to the Permanent Diaconate for the Archdiocese of St. Paul and Minneapolis, in 1991. Composer, musician, author, poet, educator. The Gospels drive my political choices, hence, leading me toward a more liberal, other-centered politics rather than conservative politics. The great commandment of Jesus to love one another as he has loved us, as well as the criteria he gives in Matthew 25 by which we are to be judged at the end of time directs my actions and thoughts.

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