All are welcome – a homily for the 28th Sunday in Ordinary Time, Year A

I need to preface this homily with this thought. Anyone who follows me on Facebook is well aware of how critical I am of donald trump and many of those who believe in him, including many Republicans elected to public office. As I much as I may despise how they treat, use, and abuse human beings; as much as I may consider them the fecal matter of the Body of Christ (a strong image that I’m sure St. Paul never intended), I do not wish to damn them to hell for eternity. I only know too well my own sins and limitations and hope that God extends the mercy and love that God has for me to them, too, and, vice versa. On to the homily …

A HOMILY FOR THE 28TH SUNDAY IN ORDINARY TIME

When I was in 4th grade, Sr. Carmelita encouraged us to make friends only with other Catholic children. However, if we insisted on playing with Protestant children, should any of them get injured to the point of death, we were to baptize them immediately with whatever water was handy, so they would not go to hell. It is reminiscent of the joke in which this guy dies and goes to heaven and St. Peter takes him down the hall past a number of doors and then St. Peter stops and says, “You have to be very, very quiet going past that door. That’s where the Catholics are, and they think they’re the only ones here.”

Vainglory is something from which many people suffer. I am no different than anyone else. We all like to think we and those like us are the only ones going to heaven. And, if you are like me, there are times we may have assigned people we do not like to places deep in the lowest, darkest levels of hell.

Praise be to God, the Second Vatican Council was held, ecumenism was promoted and all Christians were encouraged to share their faith in Jesus Christ with other Christians. We learned that none of us were born with devil horns and cloven feet, and while there were still differences in how the many Christian faith traditions celebrate their belief in Jesus Christ, we have learned that what we all share in common is far greater than those differences that separate us.

For those of us still vainglorious enough to believe that we are the only ones going to heaven, the scripture readings are telling us today to not count our chickens before they hatch. Many people who we may think will not be admitted to heaven will be there. And many people we thought will be in heaven will not be there. And, don’t be so sure that our own salvation is secure. At the end of our days, we might not find ourselves in heaven, either.

What we hear in both the reading from Isaiah, and the gospel from Matthew is that God’s mercy and love is all inclusive. God’s mercy and love is greater than the petty differences that separate people from people, culture from culture, nationality from nationality, language from language.

In the reading from Isaiah, all people, of all cultures, all languages, and all religions are invited to the heavenly banquet feast on God’s holy mountain. God’s feast is inclusive to the point that even the enemies of the Jewish people are welcomed around his banquet table. God provides “a feast of rich food and choice wines, juicy, rich food and pure, choice wines,” for not just some to eat and drink, but for ALL to eat and drink. God destroys the veil that separates us from one another. The Jewish people may have been God’s chosen ones, but God reveals that all of humanity are children of God.

The same is describe in the parable of the wedding banquet hosted by a king. At first, only certain chosen people are invited. They all refuse their invitation claiming that they are too busy or distracted from attending, and, in some cases, killing the servants of the king who invite them to the banquet. So the King then tells his servants that the feast is ready. However, because those who were first invited were not worthy to come, the servants should go out into the main roads and invite to the feast whomever they find. Jesus continues the story saying, “The servants went out into the streets and gathered all they found, bad and good alike, and the hall was filled with guests.”

As you know, Archbishop Flynn assigned me as a parish life administrator to St. Stephen’s in 2004. The mission statement of this inner city parish was essentially that the parish was one big circus tent under which all people were welcome. Among this unique grouping of parishioners were great numbers of street people, ex-offenders, ex-priests, ex- nuns, the gay and lesbian community, those who were developmentally disabled, prostitutes, the disenfranchised of other different faith traditions including Lutherans, Methodists, 7th Day Adventists, and a Quaker. There were times at the end of a week I would think to myself, “I think we are still Catholic.”

There was a very conservative and traditionalist group from St. Agnes Catholic Church in St. Paul, they called themselves the Rosary for Truth. They did not like that there were parishes like St. Stephens primarily because the people welcomed at St. Stephen’s didn’t fit their definition of what good Catholics should be. The Rosary for Truth group would arrive 30 minutes before the 11 o’clock Sunday morning Mass to pray the rosary for all whom they considered damned for eternity, namely, all the parishioners of St. Stephen’s. They would stay for a part of the Mass, then, as one, the Rosary for Truth group would walk out in the middle of the consecration. After 3 months of this spiritual abuse, I met them at the door of the church and disinvited them because they were insulting my parishioners and mocking the Catholic faith.

Unlike Pope Francis who preaches a large inclusive Church made up of all people, all cultures, all sexual orientations, all walks of life, the Rosary of Truth group believed that only a certain exclusive group of Catholics, namely them, would be admitted into heaven. In their vainglory, they did not believe that God was all loving and merciful. They could not believe that God welcomes all people around his banquet table, the “bad and good alike”. As Jesus tells us in the Gospel today, there is no limit to the mercy of God.

I remember one parishioner from St. Stephen’s telling me that when he came out and told his family he was gay, his family ostracized him. They kicked him out of the family and he was no longer welcome in the celebrations of the family into which he was born. He fell into a deep depression, contemplating suicide. He came to St. Stephen’s Catholic Church and found that God loved him, and accepted him just as he was. In the liturgies and in many of the parish community who were as broken as he was, he discovered that God did not hate him and condemn him for being gay. Rather, God loved and welcomed him with open arms.

Where do you find yourself today here at church? Do you count yourself among the bad around this banquet table of God, or among the good? Or, are you not too sure where you fit in among the people gathered here today. Jesus is telling us is that God’s love and mercy is great, powerful, and encompasses all people. Jesus is telling us that God welcomes all of us the bad and good alike to this banquet table. All that is required of us is to accept God’s invitation.

trump and hell, but I repeat myself …

Gustave Dore’s illustration of the lowest level of hell, from Dante’s “Inferno.”

The immoral proclamations of trump, his complete disregard for human life, our world’s environment, his lifestyle focused on self-indulgence with no regard to what it is costing others, and an armed with the emotional maturity and intelligence of a two year old, is frightening. That there are those, seemingly stupefied, who are willing to follow him zombiesque off to oblivion is just downright pathetic. One swears that the normal trump follower brainlessly and  eagerly will drink the poisoned Kool Aid he is giving them to drink.

There was a time when the immoral acts of trump would elicit from me a curse sending trump to the lowest & most painful bowels of hell. Then, I thought, redundancy is pointless. Why incur a sin when trump has already condemned himself to the lowest & most painful bowels of hell? So, I no longer curse him knowing full well that when his penchant for fatty, greasy foods ends his self-indulgent narcissistic life, he will be spending an eternity in a Dantesque painted agony of hell (see the Gustave Dore illustration of the lowest level of Hell above).

The Church an entryway into Mystery

I have posted this before. The Church acts as an entry way to Divine Mystery, NOT as a black & white place for answers to things that happen in human life. Only divine mandates like the Decalogue, & the Great Commandment of Jesus are absolute. All other teachings are guides to living a good life.

When I was studying to be a spiritual director, I had the delightful opportunity to talk to a religious sister from Italy, who was a member of my class. Her name was Sr. Sophia. She was puzzled at how much importance Americans place on following the letter of the law. As she explained, when driving in Italy, if there is a red light, if no one is coming you run the light. If late at night, there is no one on the road, you do not have to follow the speed limit. She explained that in Italy, the same applied to Church law. It was an important guide to living a good human life, but did not always apply to life in all of its circumstances. Church law was not the end unto itself, as we in America might think. Rather, Church law was there as an aid to the ultimate end of life which is God. If Church law hinders a person’s pathway to God, it must not be followed.

She did not say that Church law was not important. But she said that once must be self-aware of one’s faith and in deep communication with God. If, in that communication, Church law hinders the person’s relationship with God, it must not be applied in that instance.

The world of black and white answers, like Catholic Answers, is for people who lack the ability or are simply too lazy to struggle with the contradictions and challenges that are a part of our life and the lives of those we love. It is the struggle that builds up one’s faith. It is diving into the mystery of these challenges in human life in which one eventually finds the way to God. The law of the Church is a guide to help us understand these challenges for All of life is a Mystery. The law of the Church gives us a framework by which we can meditate and contemplate the mystery of our relationship with God. but NEVER solves that mystery.

I have found personally and in my work with others, that very little in life is absolutely black and white. It is important to have the law of the Church as our guide. It is vitally important, however, to NOT deify the law of the Church. The law of the Church is NOT  God, but simply a tool by which we are guided to a deeper relationship with God. Our relationship is WITH God, and NOT with the law of the Church.

So, I get a little frustrated with the black & white world of sites like Catholic Answers. As a very faithful & very Catholic priest once advised me years ago, the Church teaches to the general & not to the particular. There are times when what the Church teaches may be harmful in particular circumstances. This is why the Church holds very high the teaching of the Internal Forum, when the person sorts things out with God. The mark of a faith that is healthy & vibrant is one NOT of blind obedience, but one that questions, ponders, & then owns one faith in the mystery that is God.